It was never my intention to hurt anyone’s feelings, but I guess that’s just how life works sometimes.
I met her about six months ago at a ktv. She was working there as a hostess, and I was there with some friends. she was very handsy with me and after our session, I dabao-ed her to a hotel and we carried on from there.
I was attracted to her beauty, charm, and intelligence. She doesn’t look like it but she’s f-ing smart.
I started seeing her more often, and at first I paid for her services but eventually, we met up outside of her work and got really close, then we ended up dating. And I wanted to bring her home to meet my family.
But when I finally decided to bring her home for dinner, their reaction was not what I expected. My mother was the first to react, and she was not happy. She warned me to stay away from this woman, saying that it would only bring shame and dishonor to our family.
My father was equally adamant that this relationship was a bad idea, and my siblings were no different. They all felt that I was making a mistake, and that I should break it off before it was too late.
I tried to explain to them that I was in love with this woman and that I wanted to be with her, but they just wouldn’t listen. They kept saying that she was a ktv hostess and that she was not of the same social class as our family. They said that I should find someone more suitable for me and that this relationship would only lead to heartache.
The more I tried to explain my feelings for her, the more frustrated my family became. Eventually, I just gave up and stopped talking about her. I could tell that my family was disappointed and angry with my decision, but I just couldn’t bring myself to end the relationship.
My family and I have had a strained relationship ever since, and it’s been hard to bridge the gap between us. They still don’t approve of my relationship with her and they’ve made it clear that they don’t want me to be with her. But I’m determined to make this relationship work, no matter what anyone says. She is more than her job, she is a human being.
I’m sure my family will eventually come around and accept my choice, but until then, I’m just going to focus on the woman I love and the life we’re building together. No matter what anyone else says, I know that I’m doing the right thing and that I’m happy. That’s all that matters.