What do u do if your man act like this?
Funny story.
So my man strike toto by buying his ex female colleague carplate. He notice that the carplate always kena.
So he tried his luck then kena liao. Funny lo, first thing he do, he go jio the ex female colleague to eat HDL. Not only that, he offered to pick her up. Anddddd, he said he will book it.
Mind you hor, he nvr book anythg when go out to eat at cafe/restaurant with me/frns/fam. He always ask me to research and book deeee horrrr. So my heart drop till idk where le when i read their msg. In my mind,i was thinking like oh, u can do booking for her, bt nvr with me. Even valentine also ask me to book, he say he jz pay. Just book wherever i want. Like bro, i feel hen stupid.
Sometimes i receive msg like those guys with partner, i will think like, that’s not good. Why thy are texting girls when they hv partner. I don’t react to those msg cz i know he will be uncomfortable.
Like BFFR??? Why I dont receive the same energy back. He keep saying she’s just a friend, nth happen. I still love u. Etc. Like the reason he gv, i cannot brain leehhhhhhh. Why do u need to update ur daily thgs in ur life to her??? Then he replied, no la just casual chat ma. Can i do casual chat to a man? I dont think so loooo.
Walao, imagine i do the same thing to a guy.
Different reaction liao lo. Sure say, no la, ur this guy is butterfly, different ma, he obviously want somethg frm u. Brrooooooo? Ni jiang wan lo.
Im not really sensitive or jealous so I jz agree thm going for dinner.
Fast forward few days, i tried taking his phone to read some text bcz i have a gut feelings something is not right. Then he said he need to use phone. We dont always check each other phone cz i really trust him.
This make me more sus. After few days gone by, i try again lo. Reading those msg between him and the ex colleague, hmm, he been sending him some update like what he would tell me usually.
Like bro, u reli so desperate for frns meh. He keep saying he dont hv much frns la. Etc.
I feel so stupid leh. Like my partner is like what i think those guys with partner then act like single anyhow go text girls. Walao leh.
Cannot brain. His msg make me feel like….. Actually he can put effort de leh, bt not for me lo. Like u can actually do those thgs de leh, maybe im not good enough for u to do all this??
Like i feel hen stupid, cz very embarrassing for me to hv a man keep updating other girl his things instead of me.
Like also i feel wtf leh. Why u can do that to an ex colleague. Make booking la. Go fetch her la. But fetch me go somewhr sometimes also say far. Maybe really relationship too long, will tk each other for granted la. Idk bro.
But overall, we been tgt for 4years plus and no relationship is perfect. I know we need to compromise and forgive each other. He is really good to me and spoiled me alot.
Anyhow, he apologised and i choose to forgive him. Will update if have part 2.
Sorry for mixed and broken english. Rip to u reading until the end.
Stay happy and safe.