How do you actually meet women after leaving school?
I work alone 90% of the time + in a male dominated field.
As far as hobbies they are also male dominated as well, I game and go drinking with my guy friends every week but they don’t know any women either.
I volunteer as a teacher for underprivileged kids but there’s no women my age there and we don’t interact with other volunteers too much.
I also train martial arts and lift weights but again those are male dominated. Im a musician but not in a band. Im not attractive enough to get attentjon on dating apps.
I want a relationship and eventually a family but I feel I can’t even meet potential partners let alone get a date. I dated in high school and had female friends in college but now idk what to do
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- Hey, I found my bf (and ex) on a dating app but I can understand where you and the other OP are coming from. I’ve considered different options and it’s not easy to meet new people of the opposite gender, who are suitable for dating.
Some options for you to consider, which I did when I was single.
-join activity groups, pick up a new sport or interest. If you want to be practical, join something on your own so you’d be “forced” to socialise. Since you wish to meet women, join something where there’s generally more women.
-workplace: if yours allows for socialising or mingling, go ahead and join. Someone may have a friend to introduce etc. My colleagues have offered to introduce men to me, I found it awkward but it seems like it can work.
-dating events: I didn’t try this but have heard of a few. Probably the paid ones are better if you can afford it? - OP you go fishing in tubs of sausages for what? Go fishing where the fishes are at. Join Yoga classes, Pilate classes, Dance Classes etc
Where it is primarily women’s sports.
You already know that you are not getting the exposure you want, sometimes you have to change the activities you are doing inorder to meet more women. You have to go where they hangout.
Come join my dance studio for a trial class if you want.. we want more new male leads. - why not try the dating app instead of not even taking the 1st step, if you can get that 1 match that ends up being your future wife, why not?