I’ve been with my GF for 2 years and long-distance. Overall we have a happy and loving relationship but there’s been a few instances where I’ve broken it off but it never lasts more than a day or two. Again we’re very happy and love each other and worked through a lot together. But about a week into our relationship she told me she was sick. It didn’t affect much during the week, we still texted and sent pics and videos regularly. It wasn’t until the weekend that things got weird to me.
She pretty much went dark for the whole weekend aside from maybe 5 messages. It would take her at least 4 hrs to reply, if at all, but I know she had her phone nearby. We had a streak on Instagram sending pics and videos every day. I was working during the day and overnight so I almost let the streak die when she saved it literally last minute. She’d also leave me on “read” for hours too so I know she saw my messages. I didn’t think anything of it, just that maybe she got worse and couldn’t reply? I did tell myself that if the weekend ended and she magically got better that would be a red flag.
Surprise! Around the middle of the night on Sunday she sends me a barrage of texts. Like 5-10 messages back to back saying that she missed me and she’s feeling better and if I wanted to talk she was down. I didn’t respond until I was getting ready to head home in the morning and it was a breakup text. It just seemed too weird to me that she’d pretty much ignore me all weekend and then send all those messages in the middle of the night. When I asked what she was doing all weekend she just said sleeping, but I know she was opening my messages minutes after I’d send them and just not responding.
Eventually, I decided I don’t have proof she cheated so we ended up getting back together but…I still wonder what happened that weekend from time to time.
Just wanted to put the story out there and see if anyone had advice or a similar experience?
Here are what netizens think:
If you think she’s cheating then she probably is. Suspicions like these don’t rise out of anywhere. All you want is proof because there’s this small sliver of hope inside of you that she didn’t..
It’s one of those trust things tbh. Unless you have any sort of proof its all trust