I had been with my girlfriend for almost two years now, and it had been a rollercoaster ride.
From the moment I met her, I knew I had found the one. She was everything I ever wanted in a partner and I was so happy to have her in my life.
But lately, things had been rocky. She had been playing this game that I didn’t understand, where she would ignore me or act distant whenever she was unhappy about something.
She wouldn’t talk to me or try to solve our problems, instead she would just play this ‘cold war’ with me and leave me in the dark.
At first, I thought it was just a phase and that things would get better soon. But as time went on, it became clear that this wasn’t just a phase, it was a pattern of behaviour. She would be cold and distant, and then when I tried to talk to her about what was going on she would just shut down and go back to playing her coldwar game.
I tried to talk to her about it multiple times, but she refused to open up. She would just keep playing her coldwar game, and I felt like she was pushing me away. I was so frustrated and hurt that I finally reached my breaking point.
I told her that if she didn’t want to talk to me, then she could just play her game forever and I was done. I said goodbye and walked away, not sure if I would ever see her again.
That was the last time I saw her. To this day, I still think about her and wonder if she ever stopped playing her game and opened up to me. But deep down, I know the answer is no. I had had enough, and it was time for me to move on.
My experience with my ex-girlfriend taught me a valuable lesson: no matter how much you love someone, if they aren’t willing to communicate and work on their problems, then it’s time to let go. No matter how hard it may be, it’s the only way to find true happiness.