My husband just passed this comment in front of his brother and his brother’s wife. He said that if he saw me before my wedding, he would not have married me because I was fat and dark (arranged marriage).
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I am of course mortified and shocked. I am totally depressed and didn’t expect this from him at all, as he knows that I am very sensitive about this issue.
I lost close to 30kgs and have about 15 kgs to reach my goal weight. No matter how hard I run, I can’t outrun this issue at all..
I am beyond humiliated and am beginning to think that he doesn’t care for me at all. How do I deal with this…he is good otherwise and caring but I am totally defeated from this encounter.
Netizens’ comments
- I know it’s an arranged marriage, but you guys really just showed up to your wedding without knowing what the other party looks like? Never go out for dates OR EVEN VIDEO CALL EACH OTHER? ARE YOU DENSE?
- Just curious.
Among all my friends who had arranged marriages, they went out for a few dates before the wedding itself.
You guys never saw each other at all???? - Not surprising. Im fat, and my father is also fat, we are both around 90+kg. Yet he say that if my mom was fat, he wouldnt have married her, thats why im single. Like bruh, my father is also not rich or successful, yet he talk like he machiam donald trump can choose beauty queen sia. He should be glad my mother is blind enough to marry him.