How does one go about finding faith in their partner? A good start is by being honest and letting your partner know that you’re able to trust them as much as they trust you. Let go of past hurts and forgive each other when you make mistakes. Have an open communication channel with each other – it’s important to not let things fester until they come out in the heat of the moment during an argument or when something unanticipated happens.
A man shared a story of how his tempted by a much younger girl.
Here is the story:
My colleague recently expressed her adoration for me as she told me she has fell for me.
It may be because I’ve been super nice at showing her the ropes at work.. She is 25 while i’m 38.
However, the thing is I’m already married with 2 kids and I still love my family. The night time activities with my wife are still great, even though she had given me 2 kids.
But sometimes I can’t help but think with my little head and feel that perhaps I can arrange something with my colleague on FWB basis so no one finds out and gets hurt. She is young, not say very pretty, GND type and great body, comparable traits to my wife.
However, I wouldn’t want to wreck my family, as I knew my colleague is young and easily swayed, she seems like the kind who will definitely want more out of the FWB situation and can never keep it discreet. I’m trying to seek the avenue of incorporating her as a 3P to my marriage instead.
My colleague seems young, wild (the fact she confessed to me knowing I’m already a married old man), and willing-to-try type. My wife did entertain such thoughts for 3P before when we are in bed, but she is generally still a conservative one.
How can I go ahead to handle this situation to enable the best out of this situation for me? Any advice from my peeps? Just a disclaimer, to date I’ve not laid any hands-on my colleague and have not reciprocated on her confession.