How can an ugly person cope with loneliness?
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I realised that even if one day I become rich or something there still won’t be anyone that love me for me. And even though I have an extrovert personality, treat everyone nicely and never said no to anyone asking for help, I still have no friends, let alone romantic encounters.
I become super depressed and angry every time I see people posting their holidays, they’re couple pictures and friendship gatherings. After inspecting every aspect of my life the only reason I could blame is that I am ugly, even if I try my best to dress properly.
What should I do? I really can’t handle this anymore. (Therapist just say it’s fine everyone is lonely, stop looking at social media, useless!)
Here are what netizens think:
- work on yourself , if wearing nice clothes makes you feel good, do it if getting yourself physically more attractive..do it… you must first make yourself Confident so people can feel your confidence in you. Although look is first stage of approach its the inner self that will eventually attract. As fir social media just take with a pinch of salt,no one will show you their plight. Go work on yourself alot like how you would work on a garden and one day all the bees will come to you.
- My friends asked me whether I am a Lesbian, i was shocked, she said you are not bad looking, funny and nice to chit chat why still single? I am not against anybody sex preferences, it is their life they can do whatever they want. for me, i enjoy being single or rather alone, when i mixed with people, laugh, chit chats, etc, i find that it is draining. I enjoy life alone, thinking and talking to myself internally and do stuff that i like and that is life for me.
- Sometimes people who post the most, have the most problems. Don’t believe everything you see on the internet. Some couples who post the most actually have the most problems in their relationship. I know a couple who kept posting how much they love each other when the husband cheated and everyone knew. Only insecure people will keep seeking validation online.
- And holiday photos? Some people who don’t have a lot will keep flaunting. Happy and healthy people will not waste time on social media because they are busy enjoying life.
- Being single and lonely is not unattractive. What is more unattractive is your anger. So find a way to channel that anger into something positive. Go gym, find an exercise routine and sweat your heart out. Eat better too. Not only will you look better, it will improve your mental health which will make you feel loads better.