My elder brother has social issues and often thinks that money is able to solve all the problem in the world including his love life.
He has been spending his younger years in Geylang and always patrons lup sup KTV to find the woman of his dreams.
We went to a regular pub that does not allow touching of the female workers and he felt uneasy.
I told him that he should get rid of his KTV habits and learn to interact with women properly. The waitress who who was also working as a hotess wanted tips and entertained my older brother.
So instead of chatting casually with the hostess, he started to ask the woman to quote a price for a night.
The woman was deeply offended and she was stun to speak, her feelings were reflected in her facial expression.
My elder brother started to question me and asked if he did something wrong.
I had to explain to him that not every girl he meet is a Geylang girl and not all woman can be bought with money.
Typically a woman will need to go through a courting phase before you throw your money at them.
He had trouble understanding why and he asked if we could leave the place and go to Geylang Lorong 18 to release himself.
I felt like I was talking to a man who only take actions with his balls and not his brains.
I as a younger sister feel that I really need to help him but I have no idea what to do.
Any advice?