He’s 29 I am 23. We know each other from dating app and go exclusive for less than a year.
He really dotes on me a lot through monetary but sometimes I just feel insecure.
He is the one who suggests to go exclusive.
However this exclusive period for 7 months, he didn’t ask if he wants me to be his gf but we are just like in a relationship. He will introduce me to his friends and biological sisters, travel together, buy me airticket whenever I say “I miss home (Malaysia)”, delivers me food whenever I work late, links his credit card to my grab app and even talks to me about BTO.
I got quite confused and asked him few times, “what are we?” He always just shrug off the topic or just say something like “whatever you think we are.” I am a bit insecure recently because he is always on his phone these days when we date and sometimes tilted his phone away from me (which he never done that before).
Yes, monetary wise he showered me a lot, and of course I buy him things too.
Emotionally, I would say he tries to comfort me whenever I am angry at him but after apologising he will just say “I have apologise, what you want me to do?” Or “you’re just too sensitive, think whatever you like la.” And the next day after our arguments, he text like normal again.
Guys, help, I dk what are we.
Here are what netizens think:
- I’m old. Didn’t know relationships got terms like exclusive. So you do consignment too? What’s the margin?
- One thing’s for sure… you’re definitely not in a relationship. You’re just dating.
- If he refuse to give you the formal title of girlfriend, then just quit it bah. He’s just treating you like a play date. No point. If he really take you seriously, he would have ask you out formally. Instead of giving excuses like “ whatever you think we are la”
- Don’t think too much. Enjoy this friendship. He’s a friend. Only that he’s a boy. Maybe he’s trying to move on after a breakup. And finds you suitable to keep him company along the way.