My [29F] husband [32M] of 3 years said something I can’t move on from.
We have a job that requires us to wake up very early in the morning. We’ve been working a cubicle away for the past couple of years. That’s how we met.
He usually wakes up before me and makes me breakfast. He’s been doing this since we got married.
He’s sweet and caring like that. He’s also the funniest, genuine and friendly person I know. I love him and know that he loves me back. Our relationship has always been stable.
Now I’m not sure.
Today morning while we were having breakfast, he calmly asked me to kill him if I ever caught him cheating. I initially brushed it off as a joke and replied likewise.
Then he said that he’d kill me if he found me cheating. And he would enjoy it.
I didn’t know how to react. I just got chills. He’s never been like this and I can’t imagine him saying things like this.
All day at work I’ve been thinking what I did wrong. Did he read my messages (none of us keep passwords) and find something off? Did he see me talking with someone inappropriately?
I don’t know.
What should I say to him?