So this was a couple days ago. I (f) got super smashed at home while my husband (m) was out and was doing the usual thing by hanging out on games with my best friend(m).
I am a person who always ‘wants it’ and I had told my husband before we got married that it’s something I need. I also told him from the start that my best friend always comes first for me.
My husband was caught cheating and begged me to marry him anyway and that he’d show me I’ll fall back in love with him.
So after 5 years of him continuing with online cheating I got to a point of not caring. It’s online. It’s whatever. It’s not a big deal anymore and not worth my time.
Well anyway I was super drunk when he got home and my friend has gone to bed and I said to my husband that I wish I was having s- with my best friend cause he tries pleasing the girl he’s with and it’s not 2 mins unlike with him.
So tonight he told me to go and enjoy my toys and think about my best friend when I tried to turn him on or maybe think about my ex husband because I once called my current husband my ex husbands name during s- ( both names are too similar and was an honest mistake).
Here are what netizens think
- I’m not sure why people still trust a cheater in a relationship but whatever.
The second part of the story is not very clear. In any case, it feels like you guys need therapy to save your marriage at this point. - Unless this is all consensual kink I may suggest you two split up or seriously reevaluate your relationship. Seems like monogamy may not be your thing.