He made me cry in a good way, did I freak him out?
I’ve been seeing this guy for a little bit and we’ve hit it off pretty well. I really like him, and I’m pretty sure he does too.
The first time we f-ed it was surprisingly intimate and sultry. This second time we did it, it was on another level. He was really attentive and careful with the way he touched me. He was dominant but in like, a loving way, so to speak.
When we got into the actual penetration, he was talking to me in a really caring but dirty way. It naturally demanded my response but not in an aggressive way.
He was kissing me, playing with my hair, rubbing my chest (which no one’s ever done before) and I don’t know why but I felt so overwhelmed in a good way to the point where I cried a bit.
He asked me if I wanted to stop but with a look knowing I didn’t, and not too longer after it made me come. Which I’ve never done from penetration.
I apologized after because I felt really embarrassed, he assured me it was fine but I still feel really weird about it. Would that freak a guy out?
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Sounds lovely. I’m experiencing this with a guy at the moment, he makes me feel so loved and cared for. I’m a SA survivor and he is the first one i trust to sleep with.
The pleasure that i feel with him is unreal, he’s also the first one that made me come by going down on me and by penetration.
I haven’t cried infront of him (yet lol) but after the second time we slept together, i started shaking. Its my way of releasing the tension and trauma probably.
It felt very vulnerable, but not bad. He just held me and was there for me. Maybe you can relate, maybe not. By the way you describe him i dont think it would freak him out to see you cry. It’s a sign that you can let go with him and that you feel safe. Thats something very intimate and beautiful to share.