My FWB is too good in bed and now I’m catching feelings
Several weeks ago, I slept with this guy and it was easily the best I ever had. He was just way too good.
No man ever made me feel safer and more respected in bed but at the same time f-ed me so hard that at one point I was very dizzy, my ears were ringing and I felt like I’ll pass out.
The problem? I can’t stop thinking about it. My libido skyrocketed since we first got together (albeit there are other factor that contributed to this) and I can’t even look at this man without thinking about f-ing him and we see each other almost daily.
I truly enjoy f-ing I have a high libido in general and I love to experiment in bed. I don’t have an issue separating emotion from the physical but I now have these “feelings” that are giving my brain really crazy and lowkey dangerous ideas.
I had great partners in bed before but it never made me feel like this. Honestly, I’m a little bit concerned what he thinks of me at this point given what, how, and how many times we did it in the past few weeks.
Anyways, I’d have no problem telling him what’s happening or that I even might be catching some feelings but:
a) I was the one who asked him for casual sessions,
b) he’s (casually) dating another woman so I see no point,
c) we share a friend group and he’s never given me an indication he might like me in a more romantic way and more controversially
d) I really don’t want to stop f-ing him and if I end up mentioning anything to him, he might not want to continue with our agreement.
I don’t know what advice I’m looking for here. Is it possible to somehow retrospectively separate emotions from our hook ups?
I’m having a hard time figuring out whether those are my actual feelings or it’s just monkey-brain talk because I mostly do casual lately (and currently have other partners) but I never had these feelings or whatever it is that is happening. Any advice is welcome.