A netizen shared a story about how he took a bank loan for his Thai mistress after falling for her sob story and after she took the money, she ran off and he couldn’t repay the bank loan and ended up applying for bankruptcy.
Here is his story
“A lot of men think with the wrong “head”, if you know what I mean, and I am definitely one of them, or at least I’d like to think that I used to be.
So I met this siambu at a KTV, not gonna name the place but the woman’s name was Anya.
One thing I have to admit is that I was married to my beautiful wife, who eventually left me due to me cheating with Anya.
So we met at the KTV and were drinking together, getting handsy inside the room and got to exchanging numbers after I dabao her to the hotel, and after a few more times of drinking together we started texting more and more often.
Eventually we started dating, drinking, going out, getting naughty in hotels, having supper and etc, and we were in love, or at least I was and I thought she was too.
She shared with me about how her family back home was poor and her mother had fallen sick and urgently needed money for a life-saving surgery.
She refused to pick up my calls on certain days and I got worried and when she eventually picked up, she sounded defeated and tired and explained that she has been busy trying to raise money for her mother.
My heart ached for her and I asked her how much she needed, and she said $10k, and I said don’t stress yourself too much over it, I’ll handle the problem.
I’ve got pretty good credit with the banks, and so I went and got a personal bank loan and gave the money to her.
She was so touched and we ended up having the most insane time in bed, one of the best I’ve ever had, it was mind blowing.
A week had passed and I noticed that she kept my messages on read and didn’t reply, and when I went to the KTV I didn’t see her there anymore.
I asked the other Siam Bus there about her and they told me that she had returned to Thailand, and I thought okay, my bank loan is being put to use now, hope her mother recovers quickly and she can come back to me soon.
But days, then weeks, then months passed and I still didn’t get any message replies despite sending over 50 messages, with all of them being read.
Eventually the “read” became “sent” and not read anymore, my calls are not going through and there was no way I could reach her.
It took me awhile before I realised that she had run away with the bank loan that I took for her, and I had to accept the fact that my money was probably gone.
I now realise how foolish and stupid I was, trusting everything she said, and thinking with the wrong “head”.
Anyway, at the time, my business was not doing very well and i had to close it down, incurring heavy losses due to the pandemic.
I also had other debts that were depended on my business and I couldn’t pay off all of it, including the bank loan that I took for Anya, and I ended up applying for bankruptcy.
My wife also found out about Anya and we ended up filing for divorce, and no matter how I apologised and promised to change and be faithful, she found it hard to trust me again, which i understand.
That’s the story of how I used the wrong “head” to think and let one woman ruined my life. And why the f— did I go and get a freaking bank loan, what is wrong with me…