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MAN TOOK LOAN FROM FIANCEE BUT TAKES HIS “OWN SWEET TIME” TO PAY HER BACK

Fiance makes less and repays loans slowly

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I am getting married soon in six months and we’ve been together almost two years. I love my fiancé very much but something is bugging me and I’m here seeking advice from everyone, particularly women.

I earn a higher salary than him and it didn’t actually bother me at first, but he started asking for loans and I was fine with it because it wasn’t that much.

He seems pretty responsible with money. He doesn’t have any consumer debt, just a car loan that he pays monthly.

I just find it unnerving that he seems to be taking his own sweet time to repay my loans to the point that I just had to let it go.

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What I’m afraid of, is that he may take things for granted and later when we are married, he may assume that he can ask money from me if he doesn’t not enough.

Partly this is my fault because I stayed silent these past two years. I didn’t want to appear ‘calculative’ or be called a MoneyFace.

So I’m asking the ladies here and maybe the men, how do I talk to him about this and how do I approach this so that I won’t end up resenting him?

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