MAN TRAUMATISED BECAUSE BOSS KEEPS MESSAGING HIM ABOUT WORK ON HIS OFF DAYS

Employer keep disturbing my peace on day off

It’s not really a question but I would like to hear that I’m not really alone in this situation.

So my employer especially his minions (my supervisors) always mentioning my name on the workgroup demanding me to answer questions about job on my day off which is the only time that I can be with myself and heal myself from all the tiring workloads that I have to bare on workdays, not to mention the pressure and their stupid toxic behaviour/work dramas etc.

It doesn’t even make sense. Idk why most workplaces are like this. Idk if I’m just too weak and done with all the PTSD that I gained as a worker from the past few years or something. But no matter where I go there’s always bullshit happen that even if I stay quiet they keep dragging me along with it. I’m so done living like this.

Situations like this just evoking my suicidal thoughts when I think about my future being not bring enough cause I can’t bare with any jobs because of my mental health issue.

Netizens’ comments

1. Oh yes. I ignore it until the next working day. If it sounds important, I’ll reply after several hours.
   Worst so far, meeting at 830 am, scheduled at 1130 pm. No tasks given though.
   Once, i brought up the concept of working days and working hours. If you sent me something to do on Friday evening, and expect it completed on Monday evening, I will say, that’s what, 1 or 2 working hours? Show me how do you complete that task in 2 hours.
   If they want me to work on holiday or day off, I’ll ask them to approve OT before I start doing anything.
   After a while, they don’t expect me to be responsive on day off.
   Be firm. Ask for OT if they want you to answer something outside working hour.
2. Irregardless of where you work, you need to put your foot down and start to focus on yourself and not your employer/colleagues.
   Day off, you can choose to ignore the questions/subject until your work day resume. They can’t force you to always be on standby to answer questions even on your day off.
   Don’t let your colleagues/supervisors take advantage of you.
3. Keep your mind simple.
   What’s your salary? 4K or 10K?
   If it is lower than above, FK THAT after working hours, not my business, any reply from me is charity but not mandatory.
   I don’t mind being 24H hotline, but company have to pay for the service.
   Don’t be passive, everyone will makan you.