I’m not sure how or what should I do
Me and my wife has been in an unhappy marriage due to previous arguments where i have shouted at her and being aggressive in talking towards her. I have tried really very hard to try to please her but till now nothing works. And recently she also told me that we will not be like last time any more. And don’t even allow me to intimate with her. I don’t really know what to do. Anybody out there can advise? I’m not sure how or what should I do. It’s been a few months since my wife and I have been in an unhappy marriage. Our relationship has been strained and I’ve been trying to figure out what I can do to fix it.
We’ve had our share of arguments, and I’ve been the one to lose my temper and shout. I can’t deny that I’ve been aggressive in talking to her, and it’s not something I’m proud of. I’ve tried to make up for it in different ways but nothing has seemed to work.
Recently, she told me that things won’t be the same between us anymore and that she doesn’t want me to be intimate with her. I feel so lost and I don’t know what to do.
I want to make things better between us but I’m not sure how to even start. I don’t want to make things worse by saying or doing the wrong thing. I’m stuck in a rut and I don’t know how to get out of it.
I’ve tried to talk to her about it, but she just brushes it off and won’t really talk about it. I’ve also tried apologizing for the things I’ve done wrong, but that hasn’t seemed to help either.
I’ve been trying to figure out what I can do to make things better, but I’m not sure what that should be. I want to be able to make things right between us, but I don’t know how.
If there’s anyone out there who can offer advice or tips on how to fix a marriage in this situation, I’d really appreciate it. I’m not sure how to proceed and I need some help. I’m desperate to make things better, but I’m not sure what I should do.