I confessed to my fwb and now she is ignoring me..
We started off as platonic friends, one thing led to another and we became fwb. Apart from S, we go out for meals, and chit chat whenever we meet.
Through the conversation we had, I felt that we really clicked and she is a really well-mannered and filial girl. She said she yearns for company but is afraid of starting a relationship due to past experiences. Over time, I think I fell in love with her and I really want to protect her and make her happy.
I decided to pluck up my courage and told her that I hope we can go beyond fwb and do more things together as a couple… She immediately changed the topic, I thought perhaps she is shy and needs time to think through so I didn’t probe further. It has been 2 weeks and she is not replying my texts. Tbh I did not expect such a reaction.
What should I do?
Here are what netizens think:
- Means she got a boyfriend you bodoh. Women hate instability meaning you are there as a substitute only she has another platform that she feels is more stable for her.
- No, she needs to be the one who initiates commitment in such a situation. Your job is to play the patient game or to find outside options.
- Unironically this is true for all types of friendships/ colleagues/ romance. People should be clear about what other people can and cannot offer in their lives. Can’t impose expectations which are against their nature. And often times, people TELL YOU what they want, but this is often ignored. “I can change them”.. nah
- Now no more free holes, u happy?
- Ignore her. She will be back for more. Then play hot n cold w her.
- You are not her only FWB.