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MAN WANTS TO DUMP GF BUT SHE JUST GOT FIRED, FEELS BAD & WANT TO RENT A PLACE FOR HER

I [30m] want to break up with my girlfriend [28f], but she has nothing

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For varies reasons I’m at the point where I feel like I need to break up with my girlfriend. I still care about her, but things just aren’t working out.

She was fired from her job a few months ago and is too proud to go just get some kind of emergency job, has no savings, so she’s been borrowing money, can’t afford her own place so has been living with me for about a year, and has no where else to go.

I have to prioritize myself and my own needs and just feel like I need to end things but every time I go to do it I feel so bad because I’m fairly sure she would be homeless within a couple months after living at friends places etc.

I’ve even considered paying for a short term rental for her or telling her that she can stay at my place until she figures something out up to a certain time, but I know she wouldn’t accept that.

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I’m just at such a loss right now because I’m not sure how to handle this. I know that I want to break up with her, but I just can’t bring myself to do it

Netizens’ comments

  1. You need to tell her. It’ll give her a massive wake up call, which is what she needs. It’s too comfortable for her, so that’s why she’s not bothered looking for another job. Be straight with her, but give her a bit of time to get sorted. Does she have family she can move back with?
  2. At some point you will need to accept that they are a grown adult who is capable of handling her own affairs. You are not responsible for their well-being.
  3. I’ve been here, we broke up and a year later he was still unemployed and living with me. I ended up paying two month’s rent in advance for him and found myself a new place. He was fine and eventually landed on his feet out of necessity if nothing else. Years later we’re even still friends.
  4. Apart of me feels like that’s exactly what she wants, is for you to give her money. DON’T. You’ll kick yourself later. You aren’t responsible for a grown adult. She needs to help herself. Make her pack up and block her. She might contact you for pity, hoping you’ll take her back.
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