A man shared how he is sick of his wife continuously eating and he just wants to shout at her face after she gained 36kg since they got married.
Here is the story:
“This woman has gained over 80 pounds since we have been married. Since I have been home from work she ate 2 Double McSpicy meals, 4 cheese fries, a bowl of ice cream, and is currently eating chips so loudly I can hear her across the living room with the door to my office closed.
I just want to go scream in her fat face: “STOP EATING!”
I legit do not know what to do at this point. I am done putting energy into our relationship if she is not even going to take care of herself. I am sick of watching her stuff her face. Our grocery bills are out of control.
I take our child and dog out hiking every weekend, and she never comes. I go to the gym and follow a workout routine.
If she can’t get herself together, or at least show me she is trying, I am taking our son and leaving. Life is too short.
we’ve talked about this. And she was in therapy, has seen doctors, has had a nutritionist. And a personal trainer, come to think of it. At the end of the day, it’s just laziness. And her laziness affects my life and that of my child. This is not what I signed up for, and I’m mourning that loss.
Anger is a secondary emotion, I recognize that. What I’m really feeling is deep sadness about the situation. Not just for me and my dreams of what life should be, but also for her and our child. Whether or not we stay together, he’ll have to navigate his own complicated emotions towards us and our choices.
I’ve been supportive of her, tried to get her the help she needs.”
Editor’s notes: Binge eating is as much a mental addiction and coping mechanism as much as anything else.