At the start of our relationship, my girlfriend and I had an understanding.
We both had experienced our fair share of heartache in the past and we were both determined to make our relationship different.
I was honest with her from the start and made it clear that I was only interested in a serious commitment. I was all in, but she was a little hesitant.
Fast forward a few months later and things were great.
We had fallen in love and it felt like we had been together for years. We trusted each other implicitly and I thought that we had finally found our happily ever after. Little did I know, the worst was yet to come.
One night, after having a particularly heated argument, my girlfriend decided to break up with me. I was shocked and heartbroken. To make matters worse, she told me that the reason she wanted to end things was because she thought she could do better.
It was a stupid reason, but I couldn’t help but feel a little insulted.
Before I could even process what was happening, my girlfriend went a step further and warned me that if I ever tried to contact her again she will call the Police. she would make sure that there was a new guy in my bed within 24 hours. I was completely taken aback. I couldn’t believe that she was threatening me like that.
It was at that moment that I made a promise to myself. I told myself that if she ever broke up with me for a stupid reason again, I would make sure that there was a new girl in my bed within 24 hours.
I wanted to make sure that she knew that I wasn’t going to take her threats lightly.
A day later she apologized and we patched up and I warned her not to make such statements lightly.
I gave her an ultimatum “If you ever break up with me again over something stupid and don’t patch up with me in 24 hours I will make sure there is another girl in my bed. I am rich and handsome and not to be taken lightly.”
She reluctantly agreed.
A few months later it happened, she want to break out with me cause I went to visit my friend who was in the hospital instead of keeping her company.
So she did broke up, and I did find a new girl who later got pregnant.
Again she came back wanting to patch things up, I told her “Hey it’s too late, I’m going to be a father”.
Now I’m a happy father of a 2 year-old daughter and I have never looked back.