I (m25) have been on 7 dates with (f24) and she has tattooed my name. I feel a mixture of uncomfortable feelings and don’t know what to do.
We have been on 7 dates. She has tattooed my name. I am scared. What do I do?
I have been seeing a lady for about 1 month and 3 weeks now.
Last night she told me she had a surprise. She came to my house and as we were talking in my room, she pulled her dress up to her thigh and there it was. My name and surname with a heart.
I almost choked on my own saliva. She was so happy and excited to show me and I am freaked out right now. We are not even official or anything. What would you do?
I like her but I do not know her enough. Who in their right mind would do that?
Netizens’ comments
- Yikes. Run
- It’s official to one of you.
- Nobody. That’s who. She isn’t in her right mind and she isn’t well enough to be in a relationship
- That’s a massive red flag. Even if you like her, I don’t think that’s something that’s acceptable. It’s way too soon for something like that. I’d be running for the hills.
- You sure she’s not pranking you? If not that’s crazy. Most people wouldn’t even do that when they’re married lol
- You see. Here I am vindicated again. Every time someone spots the love heart scroll tattoo have on my leg with BREAD written inside instead of someone’s name they act like this is strange. But partners come and go. A love affair with bread lasts forever. Getting anyone’s name tattoo’d (other than your own child I suppose) is an absolutely wild decision.
- What on earth would possess someone to do this? That’s insane behavior.
- Tell her that you’re very uncomfortable with that, and you feel like she’s rushing things.
- Run away and change your legal identity.