My husband went to another country right before I gave birth without telling me.
I (29F) got married to my husband (30M) two years ago. Well I found out I was pregnant almost nine months ago, we were so happy and excited.
My pregnancy was very hard I had morning sickness, extreme mood swings and the baby was a real kicker. Well that caused a lot of problems between us, we fought and he ended up sleeping on the couch.
2 weeks ago was his breaking point and he yelled at me saying “You’re being such an a-hole! I can’t take this anymore” and that was that he packed up all his stuff and told me he was going to stay at a friends house.
Well I cried I won’t lie, that broke my heart I left like that was him basically leaving me. I know he wasn’t but it felt like that.
Well I gave him a few days to cool off and then I called him, it went straight to voicemail. So I sent him a text saying I was sorry, I want him to come back and that I love him. Which was all true I did love him and I still do.
Well a week of me sending message after message he finally replied saying “I’m not sure just give me some time.”
Well then I decided to check his Facebook account. I didn’t have facebook and he knew that but I downloaded it just to check in on if he had posted anything.
When I looked him up I was overloaded by at lest 20 pictures of him in AUSTRALIA. I called his mom and she confirmed he was in Australia but she said he told her that I was fine with it.
Well that is when I cried for at least half an hour. The next day I asked my sister (37F) to come over and I explained the whole situation.
Just adding in I was in estimate a week or so before going into labour. My sister was so mad but I told her not to say anything to him but she stayed with me, I love my sister so much and it showed how much of an amazing sister she is when she stayed in the guest room and helped me up until a few days ago.
A few days ago my water broke and my husband still wasn’t back. My sister called for help and that followed up with 6 hard hours of labour.
Well I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl called Roselyn. Well a day after I gave birth i checked In on my husbands Facebook again, well guess what the day Roselyn was born he was out partying.
I texted him asking if he enjoyed the party because I enjoyed going through birth without him. The second he saw the text he called me 8 times and I left him with voicemail and it felt good not gonna lie.
Then he send 50 texts asking if I was being serious, if I was ok, if the baby was ok and then the kicker… he left me a voice mail crying and shouting saying he was so upset he missed out on our first babies birth and then he sated yelling at ME saying if I wasn’t so mean to him then he would have met his baby girl already.
I love him I know he is being ridiculous but I don’t know what to do please help!