I have been with my GF for about 7 years and everything is starting to become a bit stale. It is a stable type of relationship and I know that its time for me to commit and get a BTO, etc etc. Post-graduation, we also started working at super long hour jobs and hardly see each other except for admin talk about the future.
The thing is, I seriously wondering what is out there and if I have missed out in the ‘testing’ phase of life.
Recently at work, I have gotten to know a few interns that seem to show some interest in getting to know me and they have also invited me to go clubbing/drinks and meet their other friends outside of work.
A few of them have caught my eye and seriously damn tempting to just go for it. They seriously make me feel young again.
Of course, I wouldn’t act on it but I’m just wondering, am I f***ed up to think this way?
Here are what netizens think:
You sure you ain’t the one stale .Anyway, if you can’t be a mature committed man and get through hard times and also know how to spice shit up and make time for someone important besides getting the fun, uhm… stay single and don’t get anyone pregnant
Nope. It’s normal. Sow your seeds before marriage maybe much healthier in the long run for the marriage. Good luck.
It’s normal to think this way. And it would be too idealistic to believe that there is such thing as eternal love. However, marriage is a choice and commitment. It is not solely based on feelings alone. It is your duty to stay committed and put in the effort to keep your relationship alive. Should you not, then you have your answer.
Lai liao lai liao. I think you dont tie yourself down to a r/s la. After a period of time, it will confirm become “stale” one. You be bachelor better. Don’t waste anyone’s time ma.