I met this guy (both of us are in our early 20’s) around October. We immediately hit it off and had a lot in common. My friends and family met him and even really liked him.
He seemed like a genuinely sweet, cool guy. We’d both said we were looking for a relationship (which I feel makes the situation extra gross), but hadn’t gotten to that point yet. We’d gone on quite a few dates, all of which ended with us hooking up. In-person, he was great. But when he wasn’t around a lot of things just didn’t add up, so I’d been keeping my guard up and proceeding with caution. I thought I was dealing with a typical f-boy with commitment issues, but it turned out to be much worse.
He has a significant other. I found out by a friend seeing something he’d posted on social media talking about his SO. I called him out and have since been blocked on everything. Having been the person cheated on before, I would hope that the other person would tell me. I have no idea who the SO is, but I feel like they deserve to know. I have screenshots of everything, I just don’t know any of his friends or family and most of his accounts are private now. What would you guys do in my position? Is there anything I can do here?
What Netizens say:
- I would always apologize to the SO let them know I didn’t know and say I can provide evidence if they need it. Always tell, their life may be at risk from an STD, they deserve to know.
- Move on. Lesson learned. Dont spend any more energy on this. The SO will find out, or already knows, without you doing anything
- Hire an internet expert, to help u expose and punish those evil people out there.