What to do when ur wife brother does not want to work?
I have to avoid the term unemployed as he has graduated with a master degree 5 years ago and has never been employed before. He stay with his parents and my wife is helping with part of the monthly rental.
He probably spend most of his days scrolling his phone and do nothing productive.
He has no disability of any sort or any mental problem.
Although it does not affect us too much financially, I felt unfair for me and wife to work so hard while there is someone loafing at home. I mean what is the point for us to work so hard? If he can contribute his fair share (he and his parents’ household), I would be more willing if my wife need to support him financially.
Now I just felt like feeding a bloody leech and I would rather give the money to any random strangers.
Am I being objective here or I just have growing discontent towards him? How do I get that lazy fk to start working? I am worried we have to feed him for life when his parents are gone.
Here are what netizens think:
- I think you should discuss with your wife about this. It’s still her family after all.
- It’s something you have to discuss with your wife, and let her and her family sort out. While your opinion of him may be valid, the situation is kinda out of your hands