Since young, been studying my ass off from Primary school for PSLE to Olevels then Uni. It’s been a stressful journey with little time for myself and my hobbies etc. After studying it’s all work work work. To achieve the SG dream of 5Cs. It’s for the money and the grind. After I achieved most of it right now, late 40s got money but some are used for medical bills due to my bad health resulting from working too much and being in a stressful environment.
I don’t really have much friends as I didn’t really give time for social interaction during the grind. Ofc no wife or gf..And I doubt I will ever get 1 in the lifetime. Yes people may say get a Vietnamese wife or Cambodia or China girl but u and I both know these girls marry only because they want to get stay in SG and because I have money. I don’t want to be In such rs. I want someone who will stay with me for who I am and not because of my money and who will love me regardless of my status. In this day and age is quite hard to achieve and it’s quite sad.
However, this Uncle time is up and I will be probably spending my rest of my life alone and lonely with no one at my deathbed. After the grind, was it worth it? The answer is 5050. Yes I can live comfortably and has money but what’s the use of all that when u are lonely and alone? What’s the point of 5 figures salary when no one is sharing the joy and excitement with u?
So to those young people out there, find someone u truly love when u still have your youth. Because after 30s say goodbye to true love. Most women that marry u will be either after your money or because they want to settle down ASAP due to their age. And u will be unhappy staying tgt with someone u don’t love.