30 and single
Valentines day is coming up and I’ve been single since last year. I tried making plans with my friends on the valentines weekends but none of them are free as they are all attached.
This makes me feel so sad and lonely to be single at 30…
I had just turned 30 and was starting to feel like I was too old to be dating. All around me, I could see other people my age settling down and getting married while I was still single and alone. I felt like I had left it too late and that I was running out of time.
I had always been the type of person to take things slow when it came to dating. I had never felt like I was in any rush to find someone, so I had never really put myself out there. Now, I was starting to worry that I had left it too late and that I had missed my chance to find love.
I knew that I wasn’t the only one who felt this way. A quick search on the internet revealed that there were plenty of other people in their 30s who were just as worried as I was. It seemed like I was in good company, at least.
Here are what netizens think:
- Find something you like to go or go somewhere you always wanted to be at. Enjoy your own company before you get attached and don’t let another person be the cause of your happiness. Let yourself be happy and the person coming into your life add happiness into it.
- I sure there single friends around.. Why sad. V day it just a marketing day where everything goes up.. If there’s love.. Every day Is V day.. U get the day passes without even knowing it…
- Do some stuff you enjoy to get through the day. Make yourself happy in the absence of a SO. No need to feel inadequate or go into self-pity mode. Other people will pick up on your vibe. That’s how the world goes. If you keep giving off a certain negative energy, people can feel it too. So make yourself happy first. Above all else.