Need help to ask anyone who’s married.
So about next year earliest I’m gonna get married to my fiancé. And honestly, it scares me. I’m just overthinking like what if I couldn’t take care of her and all. Like to any married people here, what do you usually prepare beforehand? What to expect?
I’m a guy btw. Any help will be appreciated!
Here are what netizens think:
It’s not getting married that you have to think of but living together! Put 2 person living in 2 different world together is not easy. Just remember no married couple celebrating Silver or Gold anniversary come easy. They have gone through many rounds of misunderstanding, conflicts and still living together needs alot of patience and understanding. Communication is the most important factor and both need to work out your marriages with a pair of listening ears and please practice to clear any misunderstanding on that very day before going to bed because it will create a time-bomb if you don’t.
You learn as you go. Any positive couples that you know of, talk to them. No one is born ready. Most important is to have open communication. One thing I find a trait that is very necessary in a marriage is that you have to learn to forgive and forget a lot. And sometimes it’s ok to let her take care of you too. Don’t try to shoulder it all when you are struggling as it may cause stress and resentment in the long run…
It’s good to worry about that. That means you are a responsible person. Just take a chill pill. She’s an adult she can tc of herself too
No one is truly prepared but just remember communication and compromise is key. Talk out anything that you’re unhappy about and trust each other. It takes time to build a happy marriage
I don’t think you can really prepare to be ‘married’. Try to be a good person and develop positive traits like patience, empathy and compromise.