Today, After eight years of marriage, I will serve divorce papers to my wife, who is also the mother of my three children,. All this years ,our marriage was fantastic/marvellous.
We traveled to more than 30 countries, lived in a nice home (that I purchased before the marriage and still completely owns ), bought our dream car, and saved a significant sum of money for our retirement and for our children’s future plans.
Things began to go south, when her gay friend, came to stay with us. His stay had lasted six months. He replaced me the day he arrived.
She spends more time with him than I do, and twice a week they go out for dinner, making me the babysitter. Even my children are becoming distant from me because of how much time he spends with them.
He crossed the boundary.,when he uploaded a picture of my wife and him kissing in a restaurant on Instagram .when I questioned her, he told me not to worry because he is a “gay”.
When I further questioned her, she started calling me an incel , homophobe, etc. She began to spend more time with him, like she acts like I even don’t exist.
Possibly a dozen of their images have already been posted on Instagram by him. I lost all my patience, when she said that she was going on a foreign vacation with him (just the two of them) and that the money would come from our rainy fund, to which I would be contributing six times as much as she would, given that I make six times as much as she does and that he would be contributing.
I’ve already spoken to a lawyer and established an irrevocable trust so she don’t take more than deserves. (I will be kicking them out of my house.Both have never respected my boundaries )
I had already tried to communicate with her multiple times, but every time she denies things and calls me incel, homophobic, blah blah.