My coworker (39F) wants to hook up with me (26M) to get back at her cheating husband.
Edit: I’m single. She also showed me the messages showing proof that he’s cheating.
We’re coworkers, but I also consider her a friend. Her husband cheated on her for a second time. This time however, she’s not going to forgive him and will be divorcing him.
We got to talking because she seemed down while at work. There, she discussed how she’s feeling about his infidelity.
She then asked me if I want to hook up with her to get back at her husband.
She doesn’t plan on telling him, but she wants to get back at him this way. Initially I thought she was joking, but she’s not.
She even apologized for asking, but I told her it’s ok; but I need to think about it. In any case, I would like some advice on how to handle this situation. It’s tempting for sure, and this is a first for me.
TL;dr coworker wants to hookup with me to get back at her cheating husband. Not sure how to handle this as I’ve never been in this position.
Netizens’ comments
- This is a good way to get killed.
- That’s a whole mess you don’t want to get yourself involved in OP. She’s almost 40, why is she wanting to play the tit for tat game with someone she’s planning to divorce anyway. I’d keep well away.
- She might be the person making the choice, and regardless if you think her husband has no right to be upset. He might be and their could be consequences for you because of this.
- Cheating or not, you don’t want to get involved in that whole mess bro.
- You don’t want to be part of this mess. Tell her you are flattered by her offer but you respect her to much and that should she divorce her husband you can reconsider the offer.
- Jealous husbands are a wildcard. And even though it defies logic that a cheating husband would be jealous, he certainly will be.