Last week I (25 m) found out that my fiancée (24 f) cheated with her boss. I’m not sure of his age but he’s in his mid 40’s. I also know he’s married and he has three kids. This happened last November on a work trip and the “did it” 3 times.
How do I know? Well her boss’s wife messaged me on Facebook and told me. She’s also provided me with screenshots of texts and emails between them.
Graphic discussions about how they cheated on us. Also how they got over on us and they joke about it. But then she’ll tell him in the same texts that she loves me so this can never come out!
The boss’s wife, who seems very sweet (I’ve met her at company functions before) is understandably enraged and heartbroken and is having him served with divorce papers tomorrow. She’s also going to drop a friendly email to their HR department.
So I’m sitting here on my phone typing this and she’s across from me on the sofa on the computer planning a honeymoon trip for after a wedding she has no idea is never going to happen.
She’s completely oblivious to the fact that her life is going to fall apart tomorrow. I don’t feel any sympathy at all since mine fell apart last week and every time I read those texts and emails I feel like someone is sticking a knife in my heart.
Three years down the drain. I’m just thankful I found out before we got married. I guess there’s that to be thankful for. She has no idea but I took a day off tomorrow.
After she leaves for work I’m going to go around my place and collect up all her stuff. Box it up and have it sitting by the door.
Then I have to figure out if I can get any of the money I’ve already laid out for the wedding back. It was supposed to happen in October but, yeah, that’s not happening. And when she comes home I’m going to throw her out of my apartment and out of my life.
I’ve debated posting all those screenshots on her Facebook page but my sister talked me out of it. I also debated calling her parents. I feel bad for them as they are such great people and I’m going to miss her family.
They’ve accepted me as one of their own and I don’t know what they’re going to say. But I’ve decided that she can explain herself to them. I don’t want to hear her excuses or her lies.
At this point I just want her out of my life so I can figure out what I’m going to do with the rest of my life.