It was the worst day of my life. I had just gone through a nasty argument with my girlfriend and it had left me feeling utterly defeated. We had been together for a few years and things had been going great, until recently. She had started nagging me about every little thing and it had been driving me crazy.
I had been lying in bed when I suddenly realized that I was unable to get an “stand”. I had never experienced this before and it was extremely disconcerting. I was embarrassed and scared, so I tried to ignore it.
But the problem persisted. I started to realize that the argument with my girlfriend had taken a serious toll on my body. Every time I thought about it, I felt my body tense up and my libido disappears. I knew I had to do something about it, but I didn’t know what.
I decided to talk to my doctor and see if they could help me out. After a few tests, my doctor determined that the problem was psychological. She told me that the argument with my girlfriend had caused me to become so stressed that my body had shut down my ability to get aroused.
My doctor prescribed me some medication to help me relax and gave me some advice on how to better manage my stress.
I started to feel better and was eventually able to “stand” again.
Eventually broke up
The last straw was when she started arguing with me over something totally insignificant cause I da bao noodles for her and she did not want spicy, but I did order no spicy and the uncle give me wrong.
I tried to stay calm and talk it out, but she just kept getting more and more upset. I had no choice but to walk away from the argument and try to cool off.
Little did I know that this argument would be the end of us. When I returned to our bedroom, I was shocked to find that she had packed her bags and left. I was heartbroken and in shock, but I knew that I had to move on from the situation.
I thought I had done a pretty good job of moving on.
However, the damage was already done. My girlfriend and I had broken up and I was still struggling with the effects of the argument. I had thought that I had moved on, but I realized that I still had a lot of work to do to get over what had happened.
I started to take better care of myself and focus on my own needs. I made sure to take breaks throughout the day to give myself time to relax and unwind. I also began doing things that I enjoyed, like going for walks or playing sports, to help me clear my mind.
Now, I’m in a much better place and am able to have healthy relationships. I’m thankful that I was able to get past the argument with my girlfriend, and I’m grateful for the lessons that it taught me.