A hookup (28F) threw me (24M) out of her apartment when we were getting frisky with each other because I wanted to use a condom
We met online this week and we don’t know anything of each other history.
We met for a date and went great. We moved to her apartment, she started giving me a bj. She showed me the lube and asked me to hit it from the back. I said sure and took a condom from my pocket and was opening it.
She got EXTREMELY MAD because I took the condom, she wanted it without.
I told her that I prefer with (I didn’t even had the time to explain that we’re strangers, why do you want unprotected intercourse from the back with a random guy? She threw me out).
It’s the second time that I’m rejected simply for using a condom (but the first one was in the middle of the act). What the hell is happening?
When I was younger usually girls had to pressure guys to use condoms, is now the world reversed? Why?
Netizens’ comments
- I am all about using condoms until we have exchanged recent test results. And even then, I’ll probably continue to use them until I am comfortable enough that I understand whatever her birth control routine is. I think you dodged a bullet here man. Look at it that way.
- I think it’s kinda stereotype that men are the ones who never want to use condoms and women make them use it. On average – probably yeah cause women are less impulsive on average and they’re the ones at higher risk with greater consequences. But individuals are not the average.
- She did you a favor tbh. About two years ago I went on a date with this woman and went home with her after, and when I tried to get a condom she basically asked me if I was saying she was dirty or diseased by insisting in it
- Have you had a conversation with her about this? Because it sounds like you haven’t. It would be interesting to hear her arguments regarding this matter.