A man shared how his pregnant stepdaughter kissed him and told him that she wishes he was her baby’s father instead.
Here is the story:
My Stepdaughter (24) just made a pass at me (45) and I have no idea what to do now.
Let me start with the backstory. I met my wife 14 years ago while she was going through a messy divorce. 6 months after that her divorce was final and I met her son (now27) and daughter.
I have no kids of my own, and never thought I liked kids in general, but her kids became the exception and I do not think I could care more about them if they were my own.
They have different fathers, and the children and my wife were mistreated physically and emotionally by their fathers. None of us have had any contact with either of their fathers for almost 10 years. My stepson is married to a great girl with 2 kids of their own and I am incredibly proud of him, and we talk often.
My stepdaughter, I’m very proud of her as well, but she has had a few more problems arise, she is still my favorite girl, and I would move heaven and hell for her. But she tends to choose men more like her father (cowardly, weak man-child).
I was always there for her, and we could talk about anything, and other than her choice in men, our personalities were very similar.
So 4 months ago, after breaking up with the latest ex boyfriend, she moved back in with us, a month after that we found out she was pregnant.
She is now 5 months pregnant. I work from home and my wife does not, this means my stepdaughter spends a lot of time with me and I also drive her to doctor appointments and maternity clothes shopping. Which is what we were doing today.
I drove her to do some baby and new mother shopping, on the way home she talked to me about the crappy texts her ex had sent her over the weekend. saying how she would be a horrible mother, and how his baby would be better off if she did herself in etc etc (and yes, I’ve decided he and I need to have a conversation, much like the conversation I had with my stepdaughter’s father 10 years ago).
When we got to the carpark, we sat in the car as I comforted her, gave her lots of positive affirmation, and told her how useless her ex was.
Next thing I know she tells me that she wishes the baby was mine and hers and she kisses me on the lips.
I pulled away and mumbled something about not ruining a good thing, How I love her mom. I made a bad joke about being with a pretty woman in her 20’s would probably kill me.
For the next 2 hours I was basically on autopilot, put stuff away, made dinner for the 3 of us after my wife got home.
I have been in my den for the last 4 hours claiming I was working, but I have no friggin clue what to do. What should I tell my wife? what should I say to my stepdaughter? should I say anything to either of them? should I just finish off this bottle of whiskey and pass out?
Look this isn’t something I can go to a friend or relative about, so I’m coming here. I need some thoughts here people.