Found out she screwed an old coworker 3 1/2 months ago (she doesn’t know I know). I found out by snooping on her phone one night, when she fell asleep before me, and the messages were all there. From what I could tell, it looks like they only slept together (maybe a few times but idk). Last week I snooped again and found out they have plans to do it again this Friday.
Originally I was completely disgusted and absolutely heartbroken. I couldn’t sleep because of the images in my head. I started drinking more and smoking a lot to take my mind off of it which has kinda helped but not enough. Life was hard initially but things have been better since Hannah and I hit it off.
Who’s Hannah? Well she’s my new girlfriend. After I found out I started working more. I wanted to build up a mountain of OT money so I could plan my next move, whatever it was.
Anyway, she recently started working in the same area as me about ~8 months ago. With me working more I was able to spend more time around her. She’s gorgeous to say the least. Objectively better looking than my wife. We started talking daily and I told her about the situation with my wife. She was really supportive and caring for me.
One night after our shift I asked her to grab a drink with me, which she said yes. After a few hours, we ended up at her place and we banged all night long. The next morning I held her in bed and talked for a few hours. I really started to like this girl and wondered where this could go. That day I ended up going home and picked up my wife at the airport. She didn’t expect a thing and carried on like usual.
Hannah and I talked the next day about what happened. I told her I really enjoyed our time which she excitedly responded that she felt the same. We agreed to keep it under the radar and also only talk when we are at work to avoid my wife finding out. So far it’s worked and she hasn’t suspected a thing.
It’s been 3 weeks since that talk and everyday after work we get naughty in my car in a parking lot.
I want to keep this going as long as I can. I hate my wife for what she did and I just want to inflict as much pain as possible. It should be easy to, as my wife is too infatuated with her new boy toy to take notice of anything. I know eventually however, I need to come clean and divorce my wife. I’m just hurt.