A netizen shared how he is worrieid because his wife doesn’t like it when he is comfortable or having fun.
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My wife doesn’t like when I have fun, or when I’m comfortable. I’m seriously worried
Hey guys I wanted to talk about my situation. I got married 2 and a half years ago almost. We’ve been together for 7 years before that. We have a child together.
I wanna give context but I feel it would be better to let you guys ask questions so I’ll voice my issues. So if she comes in the room/house and sees me sitting/relaxing/playing Xbox she will start making chores for me to do and some times I’ll literally already have done them.
I use to do them all no question but the more I think about it the less I want to or feel inclined to do it.
For example she is not a morning person I usually take care of our son from 8am-12pm ish (which isn’t what we agreed on in the beginning and really is doing a toll on me not being able to sleep but she genuinely doesn’t care)
anyway this morning when we heard him get up she started barking at me to go get him (weird cause I get him literally every morning )
I tell her I’m tired and I get up I go get my son. My son has this thing where he pulls me in the crib and wants me to lay with him, and I complied , laying in the crib with him.
He’s smiling and giggling as we’re just talking to eachother, she walks in and says “You know your’re heavy and you can’t be laying in his bed ?” (Let me add she goes back to sleep after this so in my head you just got up to be mean to me ?)
I replied “well babe you laid in the crib w him 3 nights ago? Isn’t that the same” she then proceeds to tell me I’m the biggest regret of her life and should’ve never got married … why..?
She literally always tells me I do nothing and I do the dishes 1-2 times a day, I clean up literally every mess my boy makes like I follow him and clean as he’s playing cause she freaks out when she wakes up and there’s a mess from him playing.
Claims I should clean behind him as he plays to ensure a clean home… it’s like everything is an issue and nothing is good enough, mind you let me just add we are financially stable, I make the money and she spends it.
I really don’t know why she’s so disgusting to me.
Granted I have issues but I don’t hit her, I don’t cheat, I think I’m a good father, really can’t find out what her problem is . =[