MAN’S WIFE GOSSIPED ABOUT HIS KKJ SIZE TO HER FRIENDS, ALL MOCKED HIM FOR 20 MINS

calling my wife out when she gossiped about my size

My (31m) and my wife (29f) have been married for 2 years together for 6. We’ve always had a good relationship and communicated well but we’ve just had out first fight. It’s bad.

My wife often has group video calls with her friends, about 6-7 women. One of them is in a new relationship and they were discussing the sizes of their men to compare.

I overheard my wife told them that I am x size and that she would have left me a long time ago if I wasn’t good to her. They roasted me and hearing my wife laugh with them crushed me. Just for reference, I am average

When she got off the phone I asked her 1. Why was she discussing my genitalia with her friends and 2. Why would she continuously body-shame me for 20 mins and laugh with her friends when they called me sorts of names and compared me to her ex.

Her response was that it’s what girls do and that it’s not her fault that I just an average guy. I asked her how’d she’d feel if I talked to my buddies and I made fun of her labia and compared her to my ex. (I would never do that but just wanted her to understand my pov). She spilled her drink on me and called me an a-hole for body-shaming her and threw her phone at me.

I’m currently in the guest room. She’s not talking to me. She called her mom and sister, they both said I’m an AH for hurting her feelings. I don’t think I’m an AH. All I did was try to get her to see my POV.

Netizens’ comments

1. I am a woman and I have never discussed size with any of my female friends who are into guys. And we have had A LOT of girl talk conversations about guys but no one ever body shames. This is really bizarre to me she is claiming this. The sad reality is some people their gender (Ive seen this go both ways) shouldn’t be body shamed and other genders it’s ok. It is INCREDIBLY ridiculous. My SIL used to do this to her dad about his MPB until I called her out. Not ok, body shaming is body shaming, it doesn’t matter what gender it is towards.
2. That was a very logical question to ask her. And her bringing in her sister and mother to gang up on you makes her an even bigger a-hole, and she was already a massive one to begin with.
3. Wasting your life with her man, get out.