Wife is insecure of my looks after giving birth.
We (32m and 33f) were called the golden couple back in school And she is a legit 10 on any day while I am 8.5/9 on my best day.
We have been together for 7 years now married for 2. There has never been any whiff of infidelity in our relationship but after the birth of our daughter 5 months ago my wife has been really insecure about going out with me, saying that people will say I am with my mother.
She has been trying to lose her pregnancy weight but its hard with a 5 month old.
Now I am not a flirty person and the only one with whom I flirt with is my wife, but last night we were coming back after our post dinner walk and we met our neighbor in the lift.
She stuck up a conversation with us and it was literally about garbage collection in our apartment complex.
But when we came back home I noticed my wife was a little sad and I asked her why and she said that the neighbor couldnt keep her eyes off me.
I tried to tell her that was not the case but she just gave a sad smile.
It just breaks my heart, she is still the most beautiful woman in the world but she wont accept it.
Today morning when I was getting ready for work she was smiling at me so I asked why and she said she hoped I didnt run into any beautiful woman today so I told her that its too late because I am already looking at the most gorgeous of them all.
But seriously, please give me ideas on what else can I do to make her feel beautiful again? What can I say and do to show how desirable she is? Really appreciate some advise.