I(35M) just discovered lingerie stashed in my wifes(35F) suitcase and she leaves next week for a trip
Wow, where do I begin on this one.
Me and my wife have been together over a decade and have 2 young children together. Things have been, from my perspective, fairly great recently.
She’s currently at work, and has her suitcase sitting beside the bed. Well, I ended up kicking it over on the way to the bathroom, and when I got back I noticed a lacy item hanging out of one of the inner pockets.
Checked it and sure enough, there’s 5! outfits in there! I checked the closet after discovering this, and there were two outfits still hanging in there where they normally are.
Now, this isn’t any normal lingerie/bra and panties/sleek nightie type deals. This is lingerie. You wouldn’t wear this around family, or for any reason other than… well… f-ing. The 5 outfits that are in there are the best ones… so it’s not like they just made it in there accidentally.
Its a weird scenario, because she’s flying with her family and our two children.
If I’m being entirely honest, over the past month or two I’ve noticed her seemingly hiding text messages and whatnot occasionally.
Its not that it didn’t tingle my spidey senses, but there was a combination of 1. if she was in fact stepping out, I didn’t want to draw attention to the fact that I noticed and 2. maybe its just a coincidence.
Seeing the lingerie, now I’m thinking maybe it wasn’t coincidence.
I need a game plan on how to approach this. I feel like waiting until she leaves to make sure the lingerie leaves with her is ideal… because asking beforehand, she could just deny and toss it back in the closet.
Obviously I’m not going to bring it up while she’s gone, but once she gets back its going to need to be brought up.
I’m not crazy right… I mean, this is on par with me leaving for a trip with a box of condoms in my suitcase, isn’t it? I’m not overreacting?