MAN’S WIFE LOVES PLAYING WITH HIS KAH CHNG IN BED, HE HATES IT BUT DON’T DARE SAY ANYTHING

My wife has a real hard time being intimate. Most of the time I have to initiate things, which doesn’t always feel right to me.

I feel like she’s just doing it to please me. When we do she does seem to enjoy it, but that’s beside the point.

Lately , she has gotten into the habit of playing with my taint up and one day she eventually ended up playing with my behind. She started fingering me.

It was a real turn on for her. It drove her wild. I don’t like it and I didn’t say anything because she was enjoying it and has a problem being intimate. What do I do?

Netizens’ comments

1. You should probably talk to her about it. You can tell her that you liked that she enjoyed it but didn’t necessarily like it yourself. It might be hot for you to hear her talk about what she enjoyed about it, and that might lead to a good conversation that helps you explore each other’s desires.
2. Just poop on her finger and scare her off it.
3. If you don’t like it you have to communicate that. There’s nothing wrong with not being into something your partner enjoys. You could reflect on why you don’t like it if you really want to try to continue it. Is it uncomfortable? Is it a mental thing or a physical dislike? Either way your consent is important here.
4. if you legitimately do not like it , communicate it. do you know why you dont like it? is it a comfort thing?
5. If you’re not wanting something to happen you should feel able to say so
6. Here’s the hard truth. OP has the right to not like it AND should talk about it BUT it is extremely likely that wife will shut down when she hears her attempt at adventure is not mutually enjoyed.