Recently a post regarding a man’s doubt towards her girlfriend is going viral on Facebook.
His girlfriend had always been secretive even for the few months that they have dated, the girl did not even let him know any of her social media names.
After his so-called FBI skills, he managed to track down her account and realize that her photo was way different from her real self. He suspected that she went for plastic surgery but there is no physical evidence of her doing so.
He is asking for advice from netizens on his next possible steps.
Here is his story,
“Hi guys, not a troll post and just seeking some advice”
“Have been dating this girl for a few months now and I noticed that whenever we share stories or pictures of the past, she doesn’t share past a certain year/age and doesn’t have any prominent social media accounts that I know of, or any pictures of her past online for that matter.Initially I chalked it to her personality, as someone who’s simply very low-key and doesn’t share often due to whatever reasons “
“However, after some digging around (due to my curiosity and FBI skills) I managed to find some old pics of her and found out she looks quite different from her current self and theres quite obvious signs of having been under the knife”
“Here comes the dilemma, do i confront her about this? To me, looks are relatively important and while I can safely say I love her for who she truly is ( as cringe as it may sounds but i truly feel that way w her ) and see her as the most beautiful person inside out, I feel quite uneasy confronting her about this cos I guess from her perspective she might have withheld this information from me due to her insecurities and fear and me finding out about this might make her feel vulnerable or change the dynamic of the relationship. However I simply want to hear the truth from her and in fact laugh it off with her eventually some day but I’m just afraid of the potential consequences it may have on our relationship. At the same time i feel uneasy knowing this fact and not telling her about it though”
“Alternatively, I can simply suppress my uneasiness and this urge of mine to confront her about it (since it doesn’t change my love for her anyways) until it goes away and keep things status quo. Although I really really want things to be 100% transparent w us”
“Any advice on what I should do?”