Hi everyone. I don’t want to brag you with too much details, so I’ll shorten it as much possible.
One night, when my family and I were heading back to our house w our car, my dad accidentally read a suspicious text from my mom’s phone. When we got back home, my mom begged me to confirm her story that the text my dad read is text from my boyfriend that’s directed to me because my phone battery died. I agreed but with one condition; to stop texting him. At that time I didn’t know that she didn’t just text him but actually dated him, (and probably still does), because she had sworn to me that nothing else is going on but texts. After I helped her, our relationship has begun to fall down.
She’d always insult me in front of everybody, telling me that I was just a mistake, telling her side of family that I’m just like my dad’s sister, that I have no manners and that I’ll never succeed in life etc. I was really hurt by that but couldn’t do anything about it.
Today a friend of my dad’s confronted him and told him about my mom’s affair but she denies it. Idk what to do… I’ll worsen up my relationship w my mom that is already destroyed even tho I don’t have a clue why, i’ll break up their marriage and my dad will be devastated but I feel like I’m letting him down. I love my mom and dad and I’m miserable that such burden is placed on me and I don’t know what to do. Sorry about my grammatical mistakes, English isn’t the best
Please don’t say my mum doesn’t love me or etc, i’m sure she does. We have moments where she behaves nice to me and tells me that I’m well mannered and nice but most of the time she doesn’t. I’m their first-borned and they got married because of me (i was made accidentally) so maybe she just has a hard time considering the fact that everything started w me. She’s my mom and i’m sure she in the depth of her heart loves me, just doesn’t show it up often like she does w my brothers..
What should I do?
What netizens say:
You didn’t take part in anything. You mom did what she does best which is manipulate and lie to you. She has said terrible things to you and tell posters here not to say she doesn’t love you. You don’t know what love is because she has never shown it yo you. Some people are not capable of love. After all the horrible things she has done you want to protect her because you think it will get her to show you love. It won’t. She will continue to be a terrible person and treat you badly. Tell your father the truth. She will be nasty to you regardless but he deserves to know the truth. Don’t cover for her any longer.