I am studying as a final year student and also working part-time as a FA under my mum as she is the director of the biggest agencies. I have a crush on one of the managers, let’s name him A.
I really like A and we can hit it off pretty well and we would sometimes hang out for supper. I know he is married with 2 kids but I do not know all the nitty gritty details of his family status (revealed later).
One day, my mum caught us hanging out and scanned through my phone and the next day, she took the matter in her own hands and made him quit. She twisted the story and called for an agency meeting to announce to everyone in the workplace that he was a scumbag, and cheated on his wife which all these was confided in her when he wanted to win the wife back.
Was this necessary to air his dirty laundry in public?
Or to name shame him and did not spare a thought for his wife whom wanted to keep it low profile? But if he was going through a divorce, wouldn’t that make him single right? It means I have a chance right? But why did she have to condemn him like that infront of everybody else and eliminate him, even forced him to resign just so that I could not get close to him? Because he’s married with 2 kids?
My mum is so mean to expose this to everyone and defame him. Whatever her speech was in the meeting room to 80 over agents, was a twist of the story and made him swallow the blame for it 100%. I feel so useless I can’t even help him, but I have to play victim too because I am afraid of my mum. That was why I hurriedly used his phone to delete all the messages, leaving him no evidence to back himself up so that my mother will believe me that he “tried” on me but in fact, I was the first who made the first move to text him lovey dovey messages. I made him lose his career and now I’m being bounded by this authoritative figure at work and at home. I have no eye candy at work anymore, no friends to talk to and it is all my fault because it was me who started giving wrong signals first to him.
I will have bad karma and my mum is no.1 best at making up stories and linking them up.
I have already started people name-calling me like “like mother like daughter”. What should I do?