Living with my folks at 30, no big deal, right? But lately, it’s been getting a bit tricky with my mom. Don’t get me wrong, I appreciate everything she does, but she’s been diving into my personal space like a detective on a case.
I mean, who I’m texting, where I’m going, who I’m hanging out with – it’s all under her radar. The weirdest part? She’s started texting my friends, asking about my whereabouts. Honestly, it’s embarrassing. Feels like she’s morphed into an obsessed girlfriend rather than a mom.
I get it, she cares, but I need some space, you know? It’s time to rein it in a bit, move from the detective mode to more of a mother-son vibe. Love her to bits, but a bit of breathing room wouldn’t hurt.
How? Any solution how to tell her off? It’s getting into my nerves.
Here are what netizens think:
- You don’t talk to her is it? Spend time to talk to her every day. She is acting this way because she wants to know more about your life. knn…when parents around kp say they kaypoh….
- Yeah no big deal if she acts like servant to prepare your meals , wash and clean for you like you are the hotel guest. Big deal if she starts asking you questions cos it’s invading your privacy.  Can’t have your cake and eat it too in life .
- Move out! You are an adult already
- She has nth to do. Make her busy wif her own life. Send her on travels, sign her up on classes.
- Have a H2H talk with your mom. Remind her you are an adult now. Otherwise, get your aunts or cousins to speak to her. Maybe your mom is feeling lonely and lost. Get her to sign up a new hobby.