MIL thinks I’m her child’s kidnapper. He often said that from the beginning of our marriage. My husband is the only son in the family.
Some of MIL’s words that shocked me:
- My husband is nice in front of me, but behind my husband he curses me.
He once called me without saying hello & kept swearing at me.
“Wei, female. Do you really want to wait for me to pass before you want to invite my son to my house?”
Only because he called my husband did not answer because my husband was in a meeting. However, it was only 2 nights ago that we went to his house.
- I gave birth to my first child. The first day at the hospital, my husband came to visit & take care of me & the child. Change the pampers, wash the cups & plates, clean the cupboards. Visiting time is 2 hours in the afternoon & 2 hours in the afternoon. Husband will come early & return at the latest.
The 3rd day, the father-in-law came along. My husband is just like any other visitor. Come 30 minutes before the end of visiting time.
MIL Just sat for 5 minutes because she wanted to go to the bank & buy a new handbag, I was busy looking at the clock because my husband was late because he was busy taking care of me like always. MIL has made faces & slammed things.
I know my husband is late because of his in-laws. But, I still feel sad because my husband is late & x byj who can help. Emotions after giving birth are not stable.
I just gave birth & I can hardly move. It’s easy to be mentally broken until I feel like my husband doesn’t care because he doesn’t help. Make a child together, but please take care of your naughty wife. All kinds of reasons.
- When the abstinence period is over, the husband takes the in-laws home to sleep because the in-laws are having a feast. Husband went out to buy food. There are guests coming. My son is crying hungry for milk.
I entered the nursing room. MIL sneered at the guest who came saying that I stole her son. Lazy daughter-in-law. Pretend to be busy with children.
The mother-in-law came to pick up my child who had not had enough to breastfeed. My son was frantically surprised because it was like being hit. After that, MIL told me to scoop the side dishes into the big pot at the back of the house (where my husband cooks). It is said that he wants to take care of my son.
When I just took a small pot to fill the side dishes, I heard my son crying loudly. My MIL babbles, behaves like a mother’s child, just keeps crying, spoiled out of place. Although the baby is hungry, it’s only 2 months old.
I can’t stand hearing my child cry. I went to the living room apparently MIL just let my son lie on the couch. Just don’t fall and roll. I quickly took my son. My father-in-law is angry because I still haven’t scooped up the dishes outside.
I took my son & a pot of side dishes, went to scoop side dishes outside in the heat. The side dish is hot, you know. My son is crying non-stop.
Once I cried because I was hurt by MIL.
My husband happened to be back. MIL said I was stubborn to scoop the side dishes even though I could wait for my husband to come back. After that, when a child cries, one is stressed and cries a lot. My heart hurts. My husband kept telling me to go to my room & rest. Maybe remember that I’m stressed when my child is angry.
- MIL called my mother when you were at the hospital and said you don’t need to bring lunch. MIL has cooked & will go to the hospital with my husband to deliver. Mom, I agree.
As usual, until late. 15 more minutes to end visiting time.
Know what to bring? Bring rice and one fried egg
I didn’t eat. I said I can’t eat this dish. MIL made a face & said I made it up. My husband is speechless.
MIL went out first and waited outside while my husband changed the child’s diapers. I asked my husband, why does MIL say she wants to help cook & call my mom to bring food and then finally buy it?
The husband answered, MIL said that it was my mother who called to tell MIL to buy food because my mother did not have time to send it.
I can’t stand my emotions. Indeed, I cried & told my husband to throw away the side dish. He wants to say that I don’t appreciate anything. Visiting hours are over. My husband didn’t have time to persuade me, he had to go out. My husband called, I hung up. Heartbroken.
I called my mother crying. I said, I don’t even have a husband. Because even my husband doesn’t want to take care of me, his mother also says a lot.
If her mother gives me poison, she will follow. My mom is really good at persuading me to calm down. I asked the security guard to please buy porridge at the canteen because the hospital’s food had already been collected on time.
- MIL once came to sleep at my house. When I was about to open the door to the room to invite MIL to eat, I heard MIL yelling, “This illegitimate child is not legitimate if it is not brutal. That’s right.”
I quickly turned the door knob & saw him pushing my son’s head as he rummaged through his bag. Yes, it’s my son’s fault.
But, he is still young & MIL is also the one who invited him into the room. At that time he was 2 years old.
I don’t know why I pretend not to see & just ask my son to leave the room. At that time, my husband was at home