A woman shared how she told his son she’d rather have his ex-wife as her daughter than him as her son.
Here is the story:
“I told my son i’d rather have his ex wife as a daughter than him as my son after he got cut out of the will?
16 years ago my son Matthew had a daughter with his now ex-wife Melissa. I have always thought of Melissa as my own daughter, so when they divorced 7 years ago due to my son cheating, I was conflicted and disappointed.
Melissa wasn’t particularly close with any of her family, so my husband and I naturally took them in.
Melissa was an angel, she had insisted that we didn’t have to lift a finger more than before we had taken them in and though she was hurt, she kept civil around Matthew.
My husband and I held a huge hand in raising their daughter Vivian, because Matthew remarried less than a year later and now has a four year old son after disowning Vivian.
Two years ago my husband was diagnosed with lung cancer, it was hard on everyone, especially Vivian. They were extremely close, she told him about her girlfriends and boyfriends before anyone else and has always wanted him to be the one to walk her down the isle at her wedding.
Matt rarely ever visited and didn’t answer our calls often saying that we had other kids so it wasn’t like my husband was dying lonely.
Last night Matt stopped by to talk about inheritance, he never mentioned Melissa nor Vivian and hinted that he thought he should get more inheritance than his siblings the entire time.
My husband and I shared awkward looks until he decided to cut in, he explained that everyone would get a piece, but he’d focus more on Vivian and Shu Hui (one of our other grandkids).
Matt got angry and said that Vivian was just a b—–d and that his son deserved more than her, my husband got furious after that and left the room saying that he wouldn’t include Matthew at all.
Matt yelled back and turned to me saying that Vivian wasn’t worth it because she’d just grow up to be a whore like her mother, I told him that i’d rather have her mother as my daughter than him as my son and insisted that he leave.
I’m getting phone calls from Matt’s wife and family friends saying that my husband and I overreacted and he was just angry that we were playing favorites.”
Editor’s note: Leave him $1 in the will so he can’t kpkb say you forgot about him.