A Malaysian man submitted an anonymous post to share his recent story of being pursued by a girl.
The man mentioned in the article that the other person was a friend of his colleague, very beautiful, elegant, and 8 years younger than him. However, the man ultimately rejected her. Just because the other party is a nurse, and the man is just a salaryman with an “ordinary” salary.
My monthly income is RM8,000, so I turned her down.
The man said that his salary was only RM8,000 and he was worried that he could not give her happiness. He also felt that she should be able to find a better boy.
She even revealed that his previous relationship couldn’t go on because of the salary issue, so the man felt that no matter how good he was with her, it would be fine, but he didn’t deserve her, so he chose to reject her.
Giving up on oneself after being rejected
But unexpectedly, after the woman was rejected by him, she started drinking excessively, giving up on herself, and even stopped going to work.
The man felt deeply guilty. After making an appointment to talk, he found that the woman still wanted them to be together and said she didn’t mind that the man’s salary was only RM8,000. After hearing this, the man rejected her again; the other party added that he didn’t mind a poor boy like him.
Finally, the man couldn’t help but ask netizens: “Should I accept this girl’s pursuit?”
Original text:
最近有一位女生向我表白，她是我公司一位同事的朋友。她非常漂亮，气质优雅，年龄比我小8岁。然而，我最终拒绝了她。原因在于，她是一名护士，而我只是一个薪水普通的工薪族。我担心自己无法给她幸福，觉得她应该找到更好的男生。我的月薪只有8,000元，而且我之前的感情也因为薪水问题而分手，因此我觉得自己不配她。虽然我对她有好感，但无奈之下还是选择了拒绝。不久后，我的女同事告诉我，这位女护士因为被我拒绝而陷入自暴自弃，开始过度饮酒，甚至不去上班。听到这些，我感到非常愧疚，于是约她出来谈了一次。
她表达了希望我们在一起的愿望，表示不介意我的薪水只有8,000元，她愿意和我在一起。我仍然认为她应该找到一个更好的男生，比如富二代，而不是像我这样的穷小子。然而，她坚持认为薪水并不重要，她愿意和我共度未来。我想请教大家的意见，我应该接受这位女生的追求吗？