So my birth giver has come to the conclusion that she no longer wants to attend my wedding due to the fact that she has come to discover my tattoos.
She went into the fact saying that due to me not respecting her decisions or caring about her feelings or whatever that she is not going attend.
Heres the thing, idk if the tattoo set her off or the fact that I was not going to be married in a church or what but I mean..to not attend your kids wedding then go and say that I have never put her feelings first is like…WTF?
Yall please tell me if im being wrong or not.
Oh! This past week we went dress shopping and that is how she discovered my tattoo.
I am going to return all the shit she chose because me being who I am, I just let her pick out dresses and jewelry and whatever but now in light of all this BS I am just going to return all the things she chose and go with the black dress that i have wanted to wear to my wedding.
Am i the one that is being unreasonable or is she? Idk help a woman out
Netizens’ comments
- Your life just got simplified. Go with the black dress and accept your moms decision. Now you don’t have to discuss your wedding with her, because she’s not involved. Joy!
- You are 100% right. If she doesn’t respect your autonomy then she can go fly her broomstick elsewhere. Stick to your gut instinct about what you want for your wedding.